Sex!

"Love between man and man is impossible because there must not be sexual intercourse, and friendship between man and woman is impossible because there must be sexual intercourse"
James Joyce said that - rollocks says I - I love and admire many men but I do not desire them - I love most of the women that I meet, but not all of them, I fall for them but do not desire them - I love them for the beauty of their souls, the sound of their voice and their companionship and, yes their feminiity and softness (beware the predatory one's). That's okay then!
Gordon